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Now, we're going to look at
3 main types of stressors.
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The first one is catastrophes.
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The second one would be
a significant life changes.
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And the third one would
be a daily hassle.
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So we're going to walk through
each and we'll explain
how they are different.
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So catastrophe would be at
the far end of the scale.
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So this would be something
that is as bad as it can get.
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So an example would be,
this is something that is very
unpredictable,
large scale events like
natural disasters,
terrorist attacks.
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Easily identified as being
extremely stressful.
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I mean you look at today's
environment we have things like,
the Paris bombings.
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We have war in Syria.
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We have 9/11 which happened.
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These are catastrophes.
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Okay, these are things that lot
of people are affected.
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And you can have little or no
control over this situation.
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That's kind of an important
point is that as there is less
and less control, there's more
increasing levels of stress.
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Now another example of another
type of stress would be
significant life changes.
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Now this is something that
happens to all of us over
a lifetime and could include
things such as moving.
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You wrote the MCAT exam.
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You got off a medical school.
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You got a pack up shop.
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Pack up all your stuff.
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Say bye to your mom, move out
of the basement
and go away to school.
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That can be stressful.
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While you're at school,
you find your sweetheart,
you get married.
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Very stressful.
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She finds out that she hates
you, divorce.
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Very stressful.
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Your mum finds out you got
a divorce and she passes away.
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Stressful.
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Okay, so here all examples
of things that happen,
part of normal life
and they can affect you.
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Now we also know that there's
certain period
where this type of stress
has the most impact.
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Now when you are a small
child, small baby,
you really quite get it.
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And by the time you are an adult
or elderly,
you've been jaded by life, right.
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So the period where it's more
impactful seems
to be young adulthood.
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So this is when you have
your first break up
or when you're transitioning
to high school.
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Or you don't get invited to
the prom from your boyfriend.
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These things are all extremely
impactful at this particular age
subgroup of young adulthood,
okay.
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Now the last, the last type
of stress is the lowest
on the totem pole in our
discussion here.
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And that's daily hassles.
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So, today, you sitting at
your desk, you realized,
you tipped over your coffee
and it spilt all over the floor.
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It's annoying.
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It's an irritation and it
can be stressful, right.
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It also spilt on your
brand new shoes, stressful.
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These little things that happen.
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Being stuck in traffic.
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Forgetting your wallet at home.
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Things are happening
to us every single day.
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These can accumulate over time.
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And they stack one another.
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And we've had these days where
you'd like
"Could anything else go wrong,"
right.
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You forget your
computer at home.
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You get a speeding ticket.
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You get to work and you're late.
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Your boss yells at you.
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All these things start popping
up and by the end of the day,
you're like, I'd had it.
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I'm going to snap.
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That is an incremental build up
of all of this daily hassles.
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Now, there's a fourth type
of stressor that we haven't
presented to you right now.
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And this is one that kind of
some believe false adolescence,
some don't.
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But we'll just introduce to
you right now anyway's.
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And this would be sort
of ambient or background stress.
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Or sometimes it's called
"Environmental Stress."
So what am I talking about,
Well, if you happen to live in
your beautiful house, right,
by a major highway.
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There's lots of traffic,
there's lots of noise.
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But to you that's fine because
lived there your whole life.
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You love it.
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It's your dream home
next to the highway.
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Now that noise, that traffic
that you hear all the time,
become something like you have
in the background,
it's ambient
or it's environmental noise.
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And you don't think it's
actually doing anything to you.
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But it's there.
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And your body and your mind,
actually is dealing with that.
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And you might have other things
like your nagging childhood
is constantly whining
and screaming with you.
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Again this is something you are
used to, your mother
your father, you are used
to your kids doing that.
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But overtime that ambient
environmental noise can actually
have some impact.
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And it stacks, and it stacks,
and it stacks.
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Now to put that into
perspective, think of times if
you've been fortunate enough to
may be go away when you normally
are in an environment
that's very loud.
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Say you live in the heart of
New York city or you work in
New York city, you are on
the subway all the time,
or you live next to the highway.
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All of a sudden you
go away for a week.
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And go to a beach resort in
Mali and you're lying there.
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All you hear is the ocean
or you hear nothing.
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You are up at the cottage
or some place where's there
nothing other than
the big blue yonder,
and all of sudden you removed
all that normal ambient
environmental noise
and you're like, "Oh, my god!
this is so relaxful."
And you actually feel yourself
being destressed, okay.
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So, and if you look at
the other way around.
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If you are normally in a quiet
environment,
and you go to Time Square
New York City, extremely loud,
always loud, always busy,
lights, noise, action.
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But then you go back to your
hotel room or you go back home.
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And you're like, "Oh, wow."
And you almost don't even
realize that was happening
to you until you remove
yourself from the situation.